Top Ten Series: 8. How can I effectively counter an initial offer?
- Harsha Bandara
- Sep 14, 2024
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 15, 2024

Effectively countering a job offer is a bit like negotiating with a used car salesman—but instead of trying to score a great deal on a sedan, you're bargaining for your career. You want the best package, but without coming off as too pushy or driving away the employer before you even hit the gas!
Compliment the Employer: You start by admiring the shiny paint job (genuine compliments). Tell the employer how much you love the company’s “engine” and how you’re excited to drive it off the lot. Throw in some specifics about the company's mission or culture to really make the compliments feel authentic, like you're admiring the custom rims, not just kicking the tires.
Frame as Mutually Beneficial: You explain that adding a few more bells and whistles (the counteroffer) will make both of you happier—because let’s be honest, with a sunroof and leather seats, you'll drive this job better and faster toward their goals. After all, a well-equipped driver performs better, and when you’re cruising comfortably, the company benefits from smoother, more efficient performance too!
Leverage Alternative Offers: If you happen to have other offers in your back pocket, drop that info like mentioning another dealership down the street. You don’t want to make it sound like you're about to walk away, but a little friendly competition never hurt anyone. It generates urgency, pushing the employer to move swiftly to secure your commitment before you accept another offer elsewhere.
At the end of the day, it’s all about compliments, framing your ask as a win-win, and using your leverage wisely—just like securing the best car on the lot!
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